The other day I found out my friends husband died from cancer. He is the fourth person in two years. Each time I have been there to mourn with the family, I have helped take care of the person when they were sick, provided meals and service, cookies, a listening ear, anything that I could do. This time I felt even more helpless. I am too far away to offer meals, service, or even fresh cookies. What could I do? Last night as I brushed my hip length hair I delighted in the length, a length I had worked and waited 4 years for, I marveled at the softness and the healthy sheen. I am in love with my hair. I wanted to see how long it was and I was excited to see that it was 25 inches! That was long enough to donate. I have donated my hair 2 or 3 times in the past, but i had stopped because I wanted long hair, really long hair. I finally had that. I didn't want to donate it. It was my hair and I was keeping it. I realized how selfish that was and decided I had to donate it. So I called up my neighbor this morning and asked her if she could get me in before I lost my nerve. I went over this afternoon and she chopped it off. I almost cried, I have come quite vain over my hair.
It was all worth it. I can't help much, I wish I could. More then anything I wish I could be there with my friend to hug her, help her, mourn with her, and just be with her, but since I can't then I can donate my hair to Locks for Love. My vanity is a small price to pay for the love I have for her and her family. Besides, it will be nice and cool and hair grows back. Usually. :)
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